That word makes me think of a lot of things at this point in my life. But, it mostly makes me think about who I am and what I let define me. The thing I have been struggling with most lately is not letting others define who I am to myself. Other people will always be ass holes, be selfish, unable to be happy for anyone and think what they want. There is nothing I can do about that. Again, something I have to remind myself of. I’ve been reminding myself of all of the good that I have in my life and that one shitty person or 100 cannot ruin that unless I let them. I define myself and how I feel about myself. I’ve worked very hard to get where I am at as a mother, as a wife and as a person. I’m not ashamed to say that I am proud of what I have with my family and the people I am so thankful to have closest to me in this life. No one should ever let anyone else define who they are, listen and believe in you.